Today, in this modern world parents are too busy in
their work that they forget to give time to their children, listen to their
problems, understand them and try to solve it.
Today, lack of communication between parents and
children is the only cause of developing badness in children. Since
husband-wife both are indulge in their working profession so after coming home
they become so tired that instead of answering questions of children which are
full of curiosity, they make them keep quiet. Now the questions which were
arising in their mind, they ask to their friends and since another children are
also of same age so they answer them according to their knowledge. In this way,
children get influenced more quickly and in absence
of right and wrong, they become habitual of bad things. Therefore, like
smoking, drinking alcohols etc. habits they gain from the age of early
adulthood.
To
survive in today’s world it has become necessary for both husband-wife to earn
due to which children suffer the most. Children after coming home usually like
to see mother, want to talk her, tell her about own whole day work but since
both husband-wife remain outside from home so they can’t share their feelings.
The mothers who are housewives have also to remember that not to leave children
alone at home. Household and personal work should be divided in such a way that
parents give time to patronising of own children. Children living alone at home
soon come under affect of bad habits because they know in home no one is there
to watch them.
In
home, parents have to behave very calmly and softly with their children and
listen to their problems, should try to solve it so that they feel safe and
protected.
Remember,
parents support always develops a feeling of being safe, builds self confidence
and encourage children to do well. It is better to support children, listen to
their problems, and talk to them than give them costly things. Don’t give them
the education of appearances but let them became simple and natural human-being;
this is the only key to success.
In
contest of gaining position in upper class societies and in maintaining high-standard
living, don’t let your place be reduced for your children. After all why
are we struggling so much, why are we hardworking day and night? Think little bit
! For whom we are doing this, are they happy? Then only we can step forward.
Give time to children, and one day they will become successful person as well
as a successful human-being.
Dear
friends, Being a parents, develop sweet relation between children. Children’s
life start from parents, let positive energy arise in them, then no one can
stop them from becoming simple and successful person. Thank You.
